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Observer
articles on "Parents Rights"
August 13, 1997, METRO, page 1C, Teen Counseling Limits OKd
June 4, 1997, MAIN, page 1A, County Limits Teen Counseling
March 30, 1997, METRO, Page 6B, Martin: County will still influence how teens
are counseled about sex
December 18, 1996, Metro, Page 1C, Funding Cut on Education for Gays Fails
December 16, 1996, METRO, page 1C - Should Gay Sex Facts be Funded?
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August
13, 1997
Section: METRO
Edition: THREE
Page: 1C
TEEN
COUNSELING LIMITS OKD
MARY ELIZABETH
DeANGELIS, Staff Writer
Starting
next month, Mecklenburg
County-funded counselors will need
a parent's permission to talk to
children about sexuality.
After
months of confusion and criticism
from many counselors and doctors,
a majority of county commissioners
voted Tuesday to move ahead with
their new policy.
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policy says counselors are
prohibited from ``promoting or
endorsing any sexual acts'' that
are illegal by N.C. statutes. That
includes the state's ``crimes
against nature'' law and one that
prohibits prostitution.
And
parents would have to be notified,
in writing, when a child under 18
wants to talk to a counselor about
sexuality. If the child starts
talking about sexuality in a
counseling session, the counselor
can continue but must notify the
parent later, according to the
policy
Republican
Bill James, who
helped write the motion, said it
was aimed at counselors who
discuss homosexuality. He was
supported by fellow Republicans
Tom Bush, Joel Carter and George
Higgins and Democrat Hoyle Martin.
``Do
you realize in the north they're
teaching children in the second
grade about the homosexual
lifestyle?'' Martin asked. ``You
think I'm a bigot - that I'm crazy
- because I call that wrong?''
Democrats
Parks Helms, Lloyd Scher, Becky
Carney and Darrel Williams voted
against it. The four said they'd
support the provision that bars
counselors from endorsing illegal
behavior but wouldn't go along
with the parental notification.
``It
has bothered me that you have not
thought of the teen-agers,''
Carney told commissioners who
supported the notification rule.
The
vote came despite concerns from
the Mecklenburg Medical Society,
whose board wrote a letter urging
commissioners to reconsider. The
policy ``continues to restrict
needed counseling services to the
young people of our community, and
poses potential harm to the health
and welfare of those in need of
those services,'' medical society
President Charles Rich wrote to
commissioners.
The
counseling policy, which goes into
effect Sept. 3, was part of a
resolution that cut county funding
to the Arts & Science Council
because of commissioners'
objections to gay themes and
characters in plays.
Copyright
(c) 1997 The Charlotte Observer
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June
4, 1997
Section:
MAIN NEWS
Edition:
THREE
Page: 1A
COUNTY
LIMITS TEEN SEX COUNSELING
MARY
ELIZABETH DeANGELIS, Staff
Writer
Mecklenburg
teen-agers now need parents'
permission to talk to a
county-funded counselor
about sex, pregnancy or
sexually transmitted
diseases.
Bitterly
divided, county
commissioners voted 5-4
Tuesday to order agencies to
notify parents when children
under 18 seek advice about
sex. Agencies will also have
to tell children and parents
about the state law that
bans sodomy or risk losing
funding.
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is an amendment to the
April 1 vote that cut off
funding to the Arts &
Science Council because it
gave money to groups that
portrayed homosexual
themes.
County
Manager Jerry Fox
estimated that more than
50 county and nonprofit
agencies, including those
that work with runaways,
pregnant teens, or abused
children, could be
affected.
More
than a dozen people,
including doctors and
gay-rights activists,
signed up Tuesday to speak
in protest. They called it
an anti-gay initiative
that would betray and
endanger young people who
need professional help
because they can't talk to
parents.
One
speaker, a lesbian, said
that she tried to commit
suicide as a teen-ager
because she was depressed.
A counselor helped her
recover, she said. Other
gays described parents who
threatened or abused them
because of their
sexuality.
``It
is a dream that all
children have two loving
parents who know how to
speak about sexuality with
them,'' said Dr. Carolyn
Hart, a Charlotte
pediatrician.
She
said a counselor may be
the only adult who
inspires trust for some
kids. ``Who are you to try
to abolish that trust?''
she asked.
Commissioner
Hoyle Martin, who proposed
the resolution, said
parents have a right to
know what their children
talk to counselors about.
Martin, a Democrat, was
backed by Republicans Bill
James, Tom Bush,
George Higgins and Joel
Carter.
They're
the same commissioners who
passed the resolution to
cut funding to the arts
council.
Debbie
Ware, a frequent critic of
the arts council, was the
lone speaker to support
the resolution.
``If
we think our children are
capable of taking care of
themselves, we might as
well marry them at 10,''
Ware said. ``Do not usurp
my authority as the parent
of my daughter.''
Chairman
Parks Helms and
commissioners Darrel
Williams, Becky Carney and
Lloyd Scher - all
Democrats - voted against
both provisions.
``This
is the same group that
wants the government out
of our lives. Now they say
they want them in our
bedrooms and on our
counselors' chairs,''
Scher said of the five who
supported the resolution.
The
resolution included an
exception for doctors, who
are protected under
confidentiality laws.
Others would be made for
counselors who feared for
the youth's safety if
parents were notified. In
that case, the counselor
would call the county
health director for
permission to talk to the
youth without the parents.
Opponents
said the resolution
creates unrealistic
boundaries. Would a
troubled teen who ran away
to a county-funded shelter
at 2 a.m. have to wait to
talk to a counselor until
it was cleared with the
health director?
If
it's about sex, yes, under
the new amendment, said
county attorney Marvin
Bethune.
Fox
asked commissioners to
delay enforcing the policy
so his staff would have a
chance to notify agencies.
The county may also have
to find new contract
agencies if the ones that
offer youth services won't
go along with the rules,
Fox said.
But
Martin and the others
voted not to wait.
``I
don't think that's
acceptable,'' Martin said.
``It's time we moved on.''
Copyright
(c) 1997 The Charlotte
Observer
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March
30, 1997
Section:
METRO
Edition:
ONE-3
Page: 6B
MARTIN:
COUNTY STILL WILL
INFLUENCE HOW TEENS ARE
COUNSELED ON SEX
JIM
MORRILL, Staff Writer
Democrat
Hoyle Martin said Saturday
a proposed resolution
before Mecklenburg County
commissioners will affect
how agencies counsel young
people about their sexual
orientation - even though
it doesn't explicitly say
so.
Martin
said the intent of the
resolution is to deny
county money to agencies
such as Planned Parenthood
if they counsel young
people about their sexual
orientation in their
parents' absence.
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my mind, that's another
scheme of the gay
community to separate
children from their
parents,'' Martin said
Saturday.
Martin,
a Democrat, made the
sanction clear in an
earlier draft of the
resolution. But a newer
version, to be voted on
Tuesday, removed any
explicit reference to
counseling.
Republican
commissioner Tom Bush, who
helped write the revision,
said that means it's not
there. What is there, he
and Martin say, is
language that means
commissioners can make
future funding conditional
on anything they want -
including parental
involvement in sexual
counseling sessions.
``There's
no mischievous motive
here,'' Bush said.
``Basically what I
intended to do (in the
revision) was delete all
that stuff and deal with
(it) when it comes up in
the budget.
GOP
commissioner Bill James,
who supports the
resolution, says the
sanction ``still is there.
It's just not in there
directly as it was
before.''
An
Observer Poll last week
showed that two of three
Mecklenburg residents
would support a counseling
restriction.
Copyright
(c) 1997 The Charlotte
Observer
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December
18, 1996
Section:
METRO
Edition:
THREE
Page: 1C
FUNDING
CUT FOR EDUCATION ON GAYS
FAILS
TAYLOR
BATTEN, Staff Writer
Arts
groups and sex education
advocates can still talk
about homosexuality in
Mecklenburg County without
having their finances
punished.
Mecklenburg
commissioners on Tuesday
rejected, by a 5-4 vote,
Republican Bill James'
proposal to eliminate
county funding to any
agency that provides
information about
homosexuality and other
``crimes of nature.''
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these people that come
before us, proponents and
opponents, are children of
God,'' said Democrat Parks
Helms. ``We are talking
about the worth and
dignity of people.''
James'
argument went this way:
Since state law makes
homosexual sex, oral sex
and other acts felonies,
the county is violating
the spirit of the law by
funding agencies that
present information about
them without explicitly
condemning them.
``It's
a very clear issue. Comply
with the law, or don't
comply with the law,''
James said. ``This is a
no-brainer.''
Not
to a majority of
commissioners, nor to a
dozen speakers who called
James' proposal
``absurd,'' ``homophobic''
and ``frightening.''
James
and his supporters ``need
to get out of my bedroom
and every person's bedroom
and go about solving the
problems of this
community,'' said Connie
Vetter of Charlotte, who
said she is a lesbian.
Had
it passed, James' proposal
could have affected the
Charlotte-Mecklenburg
schools, which are
considering a
comprehensive sexual
education program that
would include discussion
of homosexuality. It also
could have affected
funding for the
Mecklenburg Council on
Adolescent Pregnancy and
the Arts & Science
Council.
Politics
played as important a role
in the final party-line
vote as moral, legal or
financial concerns.
Democrat
Hoyle Martin, who said
Sunday he would support
James, voted against him
despite agreeing with much
of the proposal's
substance. Martin said he
thought the proposal went
too far, and that there is
a limited role agencies
can play along with
parents in sex education.
Martin's
switch also allowed Tom
Bush to vote with the
other three Republicans,
and avoid being a possible
swing vote that might have
put the policy in place.
Democrat
Lloyd Scher accused
Republicans of trying to
force Bush to either vote
with them or appear not to
support conservative
issues.
``This
isn't about homosexuality.
The main purpose for this
is to do a scoreboard . .
. to determine who's
really a Republican and
who's not,'' Scher said.
Some
Charlotte citizens were
offended by the political
sideshow.
``This
is an obvious attempt to
pit conservative
(commissioners) against
moderates,'' said
Christopher Knott, who
spoke against the
proposal. ``The lives of
our youth are too valuable
to use as pawns in this
reprehensible manner.''
James,
who said his proposal was
not aimed at pinning down
Bush, vowed to bring back
parts of it that he thinks
could pass with Martin's
support. They included
prohibiting any
presentation of
homosexuality in the
schools or the arts.
Martin
said homosexuality ``is a
problem in this society.''
``If
I had my way, we'd shove
these people off the face
of the earth. But that's
not going to happen,''
Martin said. There is ``an
aggressive tendency of
some (homosexuals) to try
to indoctrinate other
people, particularly
youth, into this
lifestyle.''
Copyright
(c) 1996 The Charlotte
Observer
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December
16, 1996
Section:
METRO
Edition:
THREE
Page: 1C
SHOULD
GAY SEX FACTS BE FUNDED?
TAYLOR
BATTEN, Staff Writer
Mecklenburg
County commissioners on
Tuesday will consider
eliminating funding for
any group that provides
information about
homosexuality, oral sex
and other ``crimes against
nature.''
Republican
Bill James
is trying to convince
other commissioners that
the county is indirectly
breaking the law by
funding groups that
present information about
acts that are illegal. At
least two other
commissioners support his
idea.
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perversity, not
diversity,'' James said.
Here's
his argument: N.C. law
makes homosexual sex, oral
sex and other
``unnatural'' acts
felonies. Groups that
provide information about
illegal acts are violating
the spirit, if not the
letter, of the law, and so
should not receive public
money.
``If
an organization insists
it's their right to
advocate homosexuality,
they can do it without
public money,'' James said
Sunday. ``A law is a law.
I swore an oath to uphold
the constitution of North
Carolina and the general
statutes.''
The
top target on James's
list: the Mecklenburg
Council on Adolescent
Pregnancy, which received
$63,406 this year from the
county. MCAP wants to
offer comprehensive sexual
education in public
schools, which would
include information about
homosexuality and safe
sex.
Neysa
Dillon Brown, MCAP's board
chairman, said the group
would not change its
position because of James'
proposal.
``We
know for a fact there are
homosexual teen-agers in
the school system, and
teens that abstain and
teens that are sexually
active,'' Brown said. ``We
feel we are a resource to
teens in this community.
We believe one should
abstain. But our position
is to be realistic.''
Brown
says MCAP does not
``promote'' homosexuality,
only educates children
about it. James, however,
says any discussion of the
issue, without explicitly
condemning it as illegal,
is a form of advocacy.
James'
proposal is not one of
free speech. He does not
argue that it should be
illegal for groups to
discuss alternative sexual
styles. They should just
do it without taxpayers'
money, he says.
``If
these groups feel that
strongly about promoting
homosexual behavior in all
its deviant forms, they
ought to go to the General
Assembly and lobby to
change the law,'' James
said. ``You don't break
the law; you change it.''
Which
James himself is trying to
do. James also will ask
commissioners Tuesday to
ask the legislature to
create a statewide ban
identical to the one he
proposes for Mecklenburg.
James'
proposal could affect the
Charlotte-Mecklenburg
schools, by cutting
funding to them if they
implement a comprehensive
sex education curriculum,
as they are discussing. It
could also affect the Arts
& Science Council,
which receives county
money and helped fund the
Charlotte Repertory
Theatre's presentation of
``Angels In America'' last
summer. Actors simulated
gay sex in the Pulitzer
Prize-winning play.
``This
is a waste of our time. We
need to be dealing with
the real problems in this
community,'' Democrat
Lloyd Scher said.
But
James has the support of
other county
commissioners.
``Those
rascals and those
scalawags feeding at the
public trough, especially
that reprobate bunch that
breaks the law, need to be
cut off,'' said Republican
Joel Carter.
Democrat
Hoyle Martin said he would
support James' proposal.
``It's
a violation of God's
law,'' Martin said. ``It's
wrong, and government,
with taxpayers' money, has
no right to be supporting
that sort of behavior.''
Copyright
(c) 1996 The Charlotte
Observer
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